Some divorces are very difficult. Some are even dangerous. If you are going through one, this book offers practical, emotional, and spiritual guidance. In the Mean Time will give you core wisdom to lift your spirits, remind you that you are not alone, and guide you back to yourself and to what’s possible. You will find hope, strength and courage as you explore the hidden truth in 12 mean time myths and 8 prudent principles that illuminate these pages like lighthouses mark the shore in a storm. It includes lessons learned and savvy advice from the author’s own “necessary divorce,” and her observations and tools created from her experience as a professionally certified life coach.
This book is designed to lift your spirits and give you hope that it is possible to overcome the obstacles facing you in your necessary divorce. Specifically, I want to show you how to focus your lens on only that which you can control throughout this journey…yourself. This book will show you specific thoughts, beliefs and inherited discourses – ‘myths’ – that may have you trapped. One such myth you are likely to encounter is the belief that how you treat the other person will determine how they treat you in return. Another is that once the experts are involved it will get better. Exposing these common myths and prudent principles will give you alternate possibilities and actions that can make the difference in your divorce. This book will equip you to find the hope and strength for the climb by showing what it takes to keep faith, take heart and reach the top spiritually, emotionally, and financially intact.
My goal for you is to experience that you can create real, sustainable change for yourself and those around you; it’s not just wishful thinking. By knowing the mean time myths and prudent principles, you will have a better chance. This will take time. Regardless of what happens in your outer circumstances, you’ll be safeguarding your inner-core, so you don’t come out of your divorce ground up, bitter, hostile, hating the other gender, or hating yourself and life. Rather you can come out with your self worth and dignity resurrected. Your ability to trust in yourself once again to create an even better future, to dream a new dream, one that this time can come true. Having faith that life will truly be joyous and fulfilling even after the mean time.
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